Happy 2010!

OUT WITH THE OLD AND IN WITH THE NEW!!

Happy 2010! Well, if you are anything like me than you've probably taken time over the past few weeks to reflect back on the what took place in your life during the past 12 months, maybe even longer,asking yourself those same questions: What am I going to do differently this year? What didn't I do that I said I would? What changes do I want to make in my life to be happier? How can I be a better person, friend, wife, professional etc. etc. etc. And most importantly how can I accomplish my long laundry list of changes?

Each year I torture myself trying to summarize and zero in on all those things I can do to be a better person in every (and I mean every) aspect on my being. I think about all the wonderful things that have happened and all the miserable things that have happened and why. I try to start out the new year with giving myself a different perspective, change all those so called unlikable or unmotivating traits, and move in a direction that will benefit not only me but all of those truly important people in my life.

So here it is! 2009 has had a great impact on me. I have learned so much about our spanking community. I have been fortunate enough to have developed close friendships and relationships with some of the most caring and loving people I have ever met. I have been funished by my good friend Richard Windor, cried like a child after a good whooping and canning by Ian, nurtured by the best scene family (Maria, Corey, Buzz, Gene etc...)any one could ever imagine, and gave birth to a SCENE child (jules) who is as tall as I am. She has taught me more about the spanking community and how to feel good as a person than one mom should ever be entitled to. I wore my first pair of drop seat jammies that were a smash in our suite at the the shadow lane party. I have come to better understand who I love to play with, who I fantasize about playing with, and who can make me feel truly special during a hurtful spanking.

Most of all, I know that I am the most fortunate wife in the world. I realize how important it is now more than ever before to have a partner that truly understands my every need. I love you Mike.

Jules and I have implemented very enjoyable and successful PRIVATE role play sessions that have been memorable for all parties involved. It has been fabulous to spend private time getting to know people, where their every inhibition is exposed because they trust us implicitly. Thanks to all of you for giving us the opportunity to fulfill you fantasies.

Unfortunately some of the unpleasantries have been relationships that never started and some that have ended abruptly because of personalities that just didn't mesh. There have been play dates that just didn't work, business that fell through after weeks of hard work and people that I have loved for a lifetime passing on.

So, how does one summarize a year or even a lifetime in minutes? Wow, I learned that lesson when I was asked to give a eulogy for someone very close to me who passed away during Christmas week. It leaves you digging verrrry deeply. As painful as it can be to look within yourself, it helps you to grow.

Goals are probably typical but meaningful to me. They are private. They are who I am. 2010 is going to be a very successful year for me. Thanks to all of you for your continued friendship, love, support, and patience. I am so looking forward to meeting new friends and developing stronger relationships with the ones I already love.

Wishing you all a very happy, healthy, safe, prosperous and successful year.

I hope to see all of you, not just at our April Boardwalk Badness Weekend, but at all of our NY and Philly parties, and other gatherings throughout the year.

SSNY Thanks!

Hello everyone.....first I'd like to express my gratitude to all of my great friends close and far for contributing to the VERY successful SSNY party on Friday evening. I feel like I'm at the Academy awards and I don't want to miss giving MY HEARTFELT THANKS to someone...so here it goes: First, thanks to all of you for one of the best parties I've ever attended. The reason it was SO great was because of all of you. Without all of you it wouldn't have been so successful and fun. Some of our Friends traveled quite a distance to be with us and we are all so very grateful.

Miss Chris, you are the best! I love that you are so consistent at being you. You always leave me with words of wisdom and something important to think about. You are truly a class act. I LOVE HANGING WITH YOU. Kay And Stella I ABSOLUTELY LOVE the two of you. YOU ARE ALWAYS SO WELCOMING and warm and fun to be around. I wish you lived closer so we could hang out more. Michael and Kate, WOW! What a wonderful surprise. You made my weekend. I love great people. It was so fabulous getting to know you both better. I am so looking forward to our next time together. Please try to make our April Weekend. It will be a blast. Gene, I still have your present. You left before I could get them to you. You are one of those people that will always hold a big place in my heart. Thanks for being our guardian angel. You are very special to Jules and I. Brad, thanks for warming me up with such love. You always no exactly what to say to make me behave.

Richard, FUNISH ME!! I'm always so happy to see you. You're always an inspiration. I learn from you. I wish you weren't in such high demand! I would love to have you funish me more often :) Wait...am I nuts??? Finious and Magic Steve...... OUCH! It was a scene to remember! Robin and I will never forget those hard hands and antique brush striking our bottoms as we held hands and hoped your arms locked! And Gail...you're the bomb!

I feel so fortunate to have so many wonderful people in my life. I have the most fabulous scene family and love all of them. Daddy Buzz, Uncle Corey, Maria, Uncle Mike, cousin Robin, Jersey John, Fran, Little Marie, Rad and Sandy, Jessie and Louise...Thank God for all of you!

AND MOST OF ALL TO MY FAVORITE DAUGHTER IN THE WHOLE WORLD. JULES I KNOW FOR SURE THAT GOD BROUGHT ALL OF US TOGETHER FOR A REASON. YOU ARE ONE OF THE HARDEST WORKING, INSPIRATIONAL AND FUNNIEST PEOPLE I HAVE EVER KNOWN. THANKS FOR MAKING ME SMILE. YOU ARE A BRIGHT LIGHT IN MY LIFE. MIKE AND I ARE NEVER LETTING YOU GO.

YOU AND MIKE KNOW HOW TO HOST A PARTY. THANK YOU SANTA FOR ALWAYS HAVING A SPECIAL PLACE IN YOUR HEART THAT EXUDES LOVE...AND THE GODIVA CHOCOLATES DON'T HURT EITHER. U AND JULES ARE TRULY THE BEST.

Miranda

FMS BTS PARTY

Miranda and I had a session the other day that I will blog about later, but this post is about the FMS BTS party that I attended last weekend. I had a blast! I just love this group. Unfortunately Miranda wasn't able to make it. I definitely missed having my better half by my side. However, I roomed with my good friend Indy and we had a great time even if I did spend the whole weekend keeping her out of trouble. Thank God my parents raised me right. My Daddy was very proud of me, but I think Indy is in seriously trouble with Uncle Smike/Coach Tanner.

I missed the bad boy event on Saturday morning but from what I heard Sister Spanksalotta, Ms. Patricia, and the rest of the ladies did a fine job of keeping those boys in line. I did however put on my schoolgirl uniform later in the day to attend the FMS Academy for Girls. I was well behaved as always, but my performance on the grammar test earned me a spanking from Headmaster Ian. Indy scored a 7. She said she was trying to get them all wrong...like we're supposed to believe that! My good friend Maria FBG found flaws with the grading and papa Corey brought it to the attention of the school board, who all took the test themselves and barely passed. Headmaster Ian thought it was a math test.

The highlight of my weekend was Sunday. I spent the day and night with Ian, Kay, and Stella. It was a beautiful day and they took me to an outdoor biker joint. Wow! It was outstanding. Biker men are hot...scary...but in a hot kind of way. Very toppy. In fact, the ladies look toppy too. I think bikers are total spanko's, but they all look like tops. Hmmm...how would that work?

Anyway...I had a picture taken with this hot biker guy and I so wanted him to spank me over his motorcycle. I went on an air boat, and Kay bought me a hard ass biker t-shirt. I was so mad I didn't have my leather pants and biker boots. Damn! I really have to come prepared next time. All I had with me were tank tops, skirts, and schoolgirl attire.

Later that day I had the honor of visiting the World Headquarters of The London Tanners. What a wonderful way to end a great vacation. I was seriously blown away. I've always appreciated Ian's craftsmanship and I've admired his care, attention to detail, and quality of his work, but to see where and how the magic happens is truly a privilege. I'm in awe. That's all I can say. There's nothing like watching an artist at work. It's good to see those hands work on something other than my bottom!
In fact, Ian did an interview with Nisha recently. If you're interested in reading it the link is below.

http://true-switch.com/?page_id=725

Thanks Tony and Ian for a great party, and thank you Ian, Kay and Stella for an amazing Sunday.

Jules

Hot roleplay ideas

Some of our sessions have been so hot and imaginative. It amazes us how detailed the fantasy turns out to be. With Jules and I switching, the possibilities seem to be endless. The hottest is when the tables are turned mid session. One client's scenario was him as a college professor and me as the Dean. He caught Jules cheating n a test and of course brought her to me for us both to spank.

We spanked her good and when she left, I sat on the professor's lap and just as we were about to make out, Jules pops back in and catches us. She threatens to tell our spouses unless...you guessed it.....we accept bare bottom spankings from her. How cool and imaginative was that? It didn't come from us. The client said he's harbored that fantasy for years.

Tell us your hot roleplay ideas involving two female switches. Judging by the orivate e-mails we received when we posted about the two timing scoundrel, I assume many of you will e-mail rather than respond to the post.

That's fine but maybe other readers might want to hear your fantasy and possibly use it. Don't be bashful. Miranda

SSNY Party!

Well...the SSNY costume party was a huge success! Over 100 people showed up despite the threat of an alleged monsoon hitting New York City that evening. You gotta love spankers...what a dedicated bunch. I once traveled 2 hours in a blizzard with several other spanko friends to attend a party in Philly. Now come on! Talk about being committed.

In any case, this party was a blast. It was wonderful watching so many deserving bottoms hauled off to their doom by stern looking tops. And the costumes! I was cracking up at one point watching a priest, an ex con, 4 cops, two nuns, a french maid and of course, the big pink pimp chatting people up by the food table. It was all too much. I wish camera's were allowed at these damn parties! I hate rules! Even when they're mine.

I must say, my partner in crime Officer Miranda Marx was sizzling in her costume. People were drooling and shaking at the same time. I had about 3 couples and several bottoms beg me to introduce them to the "hot looking woman in the police uniform". I have a feeling we're going to get a ton of roleplay sessions requesting that attire. I better start shopping for something to accompany it...perhaps a little jailbird outfit? Or perhaps Officer Jules will have to make an appearance?

I got spanked, as usual, but I also spanked a bottom or two and it was quite enjoyable. JP told me I was mean...I love it! Mean is fun! Miranda and I got a hold of him just to make sure we left a lasting impression. His bottom looked horrid but did that stop him from mouthing off? NO! Typical bottom. Later in the night he spanked me...very thoroughly I might add. I did a butt check at the end of the evening and I assure you that his ride home was WAY more uncomfortable than mine.

The next SSNY event is Friday, December 4th from 6pm to 10pm. It's our 1 year anniversary party! Don't miss out! Lot's of spanko friends from out of town will be coming in to help us celebrate. It's been a great great year!

THE TWO TIMING SCOUNDREL SUFFERED!

With the SSNY party Saturday night, we've been crazy busy so we're a little late reporting on the scoundrel's punishment. (Jules will be blogging about the party very soon.) JP arrived and was whisked off to his torture chamber. He's already felt the "family strap" from me before but he was shocked and the ferocity of little Miss Jules!

The training that we did on my behind with her new implements was well worth it. She had poor JP howling. We whipped him non stop for almost an hour. We would take breaks to verbally humiliate and scold him but then the punishment would begin again.

Every e-mail that we received from you ladies reverberated around in our heads as we made him suffer on behalf of all women who have been wronged in the past.

Our role play involved Jules being pregnant with JP's child and me having my heart broken by his two timing me with a younger woman. Jules and I were so into the roles that at times we had to remind ourselves that this was just pretend.

Poor JP's bottom was as abused as I've ever seen and that's exactly how he wanted it. We all went for a drink afterwards and then we dropped him back at the train station. He's a wonderful friend and we can't wait to see him again.

At the SSNY party the following night, JP thought his punishment was over. Wrong! Jules and I took him behind a curtained area and punished him some more just for good measure.

Since he took his punishment like a good boy, I also let him spank me. He's a heck of a spanker by the way. Anyway, the two timing scoundrel paid the price for his infidelity. He'll think twice about stepping out on Philly girls again.

TWO TIMING SCOUNDREL!!!

We have a session coming up with a good friend. His fantasy is that he's dating both Jules and I and both of us think we're in an exclusive relationship with him. In other words, he's two timing me and Jules AND WE FIND OUT. We lure him to my house and Jules and I are there waiting for him. We punish him unmercifully.

This is going to be so much fun because both Jules and I have been two timed in our lives. We have a vast reservoir of rage to draw from. We suspect most people (especially woman) have felt the pain of being cheated on.

If you've been two timed, tell us your story by either a comment on this post or by e-mail. We'll be sure to mention your situation when we're whipping our friend. This request isn't just for women. Any guys who've been two timed are encouraged to tell their stories as well.